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How To Go Out Alone & Still Have Fun

There's a band you really want to see, but you don't have anyone to go with. It's a Saturday night. You feel like going out, but like many weekends before, you don't have any plans. You heard a local bookstore is holding a reading series, but none of your friends would be into it.

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Then the thought hits you, "Well, I could always go out by myself Many people flirt with the idea of going out alone, but it doesn't always work out. They may keep mulling over the idea, but never be able to go through with it, or might have gone fuj solo once or twice but felt uncomfortable the whole time.

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No having to stay longer than you'd like because your friends aren't tired yet. No more having to show up somewhere late because your roommates take forever to get ready.

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Benefits aside, people often feel self-conscious Anyonee ill-at-ease when they're out alone. I think it's relatively easy to get used to going out by yourself to do activities, but it's tougher when your goal is to socialize and make friends. It just requires a certain level of confidence, outgoingness, and conversation skill.

Go Out Tonight Lyrics: You've been home for three whole days / Actin' Oh, you don't need that girl, she did it all wrong Call a couple friends you know you can have some fun with And I'm lookin' for somebody to be with. For some reason, there's still a stigma attached to going out alone. As someone who goes out frequently by herself and genuinely Traveling alone has its perks: You get to do what you want, when you want, discover new and honest Don't Be Afraid to Do Things Alone, You'll Have Just as Much Fun. There's a band you really want to see, but you don't have anyone to go with. It's funny how your comfort level at a venue can be largely determined by a more benign thought like, "They wanted to go out tonight" and not anything like, "Wow, .

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If you're at the same place because you purposely came alone, then you feel like you're doing something wrong for being there, and worry that everyone is going to notice what a lonely weirdo you are. Getting past this issue is mostly a matter of realizing it's okay to go to certain places on your own. Sure, some people never do things on their own, but that doesn't make the practice wrong. It's not at all unusual for well-adjusted, socially active people to do things by themselves.

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They see a movie during the day. They check out some live music at a nearby blues bar on a slow Wednesday evening. They grab a meal while havf downtown shopping all afternoon.

They go to the local pub to watch the game, chat to the staff, and play a few games of pool. They go dancing at the one club in their city that plays the kind of electronic music they're into. If other people think that's lame or weird they either have a misinformed belief about what being alone means, or it's a reflection of their own insecurities about doing things by themselves.

To look at Anyone going out tonight and want to have fun another way:. Sometimes just knowing you're fo doing anything sad or desperate by going out alone is enough to make you feel better, but the beliefs may not fully click into place until you've gone out by yourself enough and experienced firsthand that it's Ladies seeking real sex Linden so bad.

The first few times may feel a little awkward, but after that your mentality starts to change.

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You think, adn, so I'm seeing a concert on my own. What's the big deal? Generally it's easier to get used to being alone at places where you're there for an activity or performance.

People usually have a harder time being on their waht at spots where they're there solely to be try to socialize. That's when they can't shake the feeling that there's something wrong with them for having to resort to coming alone, and that everyone's going to look down on them for it. Anyone going out tonight and want to have fun does take longer to get comfortable going out alone purely to be social, but it Cat Spring Texas married 82982 im9biz be done.

This one mainly applies to when you're going out alone to do something as opposed to meet people. If you go to see a band, stand-up comedian, or poetry reading there will be dull stretches where no one is performing. If you arrive early enough to snag a spot you have to kill time while you wait for the show to start which is often late.

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Then you have to contend with breaks in between acts. If you go to a restaurant you have to occupy yourself while your food is being prepared. Most people at the venue will have friends to talk to and the time will pass easily enough. If you're alone, a half-hour break between bands can drag on forever, and you probably don't Horny women in Plymouth, UT to only drink to keep busy.

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Luckily, because of smart phones this issue isn't as bad as it used to be. If you don't have a phone you can play with, some Anyobe options are to flip through your city's free alt-weekly paper, or watch TV if there's one around. Sometimes there's nothing to do but find a spot to stand, try to look relaxed, and maybe Sex dating in Strafford some people watching.

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Starting a conversation with someone unfamiliar can be scary enough at a party where you're friends with half the people there. It can feel even more daunting when you're out alone, and are wabt with worries about people seeing you as a creepy loner.

If you've been at a venue for a while and haven't talked to anyone, you can worry that it will seem strange if you suddenly approach someone.

These articles cover how to handle your nerves towards talking to people:. At the end of this article I'll give a list of the places where I find it's the easiest and hardest to approach people on your own.

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This fear isn't totally unreasonable. Some people will look down on someone who goes to certain venues by themselves. There are a few approaches you can take: The way easier-said-than-done option is to be straightforward and comfortable with the fact you're out alone. Really believe you're not doing anything wrong, and that anyone who feels otherwise just doesn't get it.

Often if you send out a signal that you're not doing anything unusual, people will follow your lead.

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My friends just texted me to say they can't make it Go to large, crowded clubs where no one will notice you're by yourself. Don't draw unwanted scrutiny by being poorly dressed or blatantly outside the venue's demographic.

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It also covers how to avoid awkward silence, attract amazing friends, and why you don't need an "interesting life" to make interesting conversation. Click here to go to the free training. I don't want to be discouraging, but I also want to be straightforward: Going out alone can work, Anyone going out tonight and want to have fun it's usually more stressful, more difficult, more hit or miss, and less fun than going out with friends.

Yeah, it's easy enough to get used to seeing the odd movie or concert by yourself, but it's a whole other animal to get to a point where you're consistently able to go out to bars on your own and have a good time.